Kapag Suma-Somewhere Down The Road Ang Drama Mo Right After The Blooody Break Up

When it comes to loving, hindi sapat na tunay/wagas/ganap ang nararamdaman nyong pag-ibig (naks) sa isa't-isa to make a relationship work. Kailangan ding bigyan ng consideration ang "timing" Then you'll start to wonder, "is there really a right love at the right time?" Or is it just/always at the wrong time/wrong situations? (You'll never know unless you forget the risks and take the fall and just think na " if its meant to be, then its worth it all".)

When you start loving someone, you must also accept the fact that sooner or later, matatapos din ang lahat. Sometimes, it'll all be over before you knew it. Some relationships aren't meant to last. Hanggang dun lang eh. Hanggang ganun lang un. And you have to accept that. It's not a sign of failure, it gives the person the chance to learn from it---to learn how to sacrifice and accept things. 

Sabi nila, kung mahal mo ang isang tao, dapat marunong kang magparaya. Kalimutan ang sarili. (kung san ka masaya, suportahan taka! *insert PLDT commercial here*) How ironic diba? I mean, how can you possibly let go of someone you've grown to really love? ----unconditional love yata ang tawag dyan, when you become selfless. tipong "im setting you free/letting you go, cos I want you to be happy---go find your happiness." (Ang syala lang diba?! Dakilang-dakila! pwede nang patayuan ng dagdag na monumento, sa gitna ng EDSA!)

Dalawang bagay lang yan eh, when a relationship didn't work out, it's either you let go or you hold on.... When you decide to let someone go, minsan di naman din un natatapos doon, sinusubok lang pala kayo ng pagkakataon. Kamukat-mukat mo, magku-krus muli ang mga landas nyo--pagtatagpuin ulit kayo ng tadhana (konektado din dito ung sinulat kong destiny shit nung nakaraan eh, kung hindi mo pa nababasa, eto click HERE.. <----- oo yan nga...wag makulet!) Pero kung hindi naman kayo nagtagpo ulet, what happens next? Wala... you give yourself time to think and heal and move on to the next phase... ang maghanap ng bago na ipapalit sa nagbigay sayo ng broken heart ang maging masaya despite ng pinagdaanan mong sakit. You can hold on, but for how long? By holding on, when all is lost, we tend to focus more on the pain that were feeling when it shouldn't be that way. We shouldn't dwell too much on it---may iba pang bagay na pwede mong i-nurture para mag grow ka, to make yourself complete (Centrum). An ex once (actually madalas nyang sabihin hanggang ngayon) told me, "Pain is nice, it proves you've a heart."

"The fastest way to receive love is to give love. The fastest way to lose love is to hold it too tightly." Hindi madaling bumitaw. Sa pagbitaw mo, magbibigay ito sayo ng sandamakmak na sakit, pahirap, luha... it can sometimes break you into a million little pieces. But when you think about it, letting go isn't really the end of love; it can be a start of a much greater (much na greater pa?!) love... if you  will let it.... if you'll let yourself be free..

We can't ask someone to stay kung hindi naman na din talaga sila masaya. We have to accept that loving doesnt give us the license to own the person we love..for  LOVING IS NOT OWNING....

we let go when we have to, then we move on... and it goes on and on... (until we find "the one" <-----gudluck with that!)




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